I know I'm going out with a wrong person. Because it's just so wrong. Everything went wrong. Nothing are 100% okay between us. Fight everyday over a small and ridiculous things to fight over. Fight every hour over a really small matter. Being mad for no reasons. Over protective to each other. Keep blaming each other. No trust, no understanding. We can't even tolerate. But we love each other so much. Is it really love? I was quite certain that it was LOVE. But now, I can't be so sure is it really love or just lust??
The CLEO October issue says:
HE'S OBSESSED BY YOU
He calls and texts to find out what you are doing every nanosecond of the day and when you're together, he wants to be hoding hand or cuddling all the time. You feel completely suffocated and wish he would give you some space, but he's too jealous to trust you to do anything without him. He says things like "I couldn't imagine life without you" but life without him is starting to look more appealing to you all the time. "Underneath all their passionate declarations and bravado, men who are prone to obsessive love are usually insecure, dissatisfied with their jobs, unhappy with their lives and angry with the world," says psychologist. "For them, love is like a drug which can heal them from their misery. That's why they hold on so tightly when they find a woman they see as 'the one'. They experienced life-or-death need for romance and attention. But if you're their partner, their nediness and demands are upsetting and crippling."
Dump him IF:
- He gets so jealous that he is verbally or physically abusive - he could really end up hurting you.
- You have started being way less indiependat just to keep him happy and keep the peace.
- He has nothing else in his life except you.
Well, the answer is YES for all "dump him if" statements above. Thank you.
But I don't wanna dump him because I also can't imagine my life without him! And I have became HIM. You know what I mean? No one understands my situation even my mum.
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