Back To The Basic

The last topic talked about LOVE. Well, today I'm gonna write about love again. Because I talked with my friend whom I didn't talk to for like 3 months and we missed so many things including where he had pursued for his study.

We talked about my boyfriend who doesn't trust me at all and we misunderstood very often. Not that often but ALWAYS misunderstood.

Then my friend told me something which I already know.. And I'm very sure that everybody do know this as well, don't they?

The most important thing in relationship is trust each other besides understanding.

She doesn't trust him.

In my opinion, love comes after those two main things because if love comes first, without trust and understanding, the relation won't work out. Even with no love, with trust and understanding.. the love will come by itself. That's only an opinion of mine. That doesn't mean it's true.

What comes after love? RESPECT. We have to respect each other to go far with the relation we build. Respect each other's privacy even he/she is our boyfriend/girlfriend. They still have their own life to live. Not just with us. We also have to respect their past before we exist in their life.

What happen when there's no trust, understanding, love & respect? DISASTER, I tell you!!!